In this week’s episode, Tony advised listeners to be yourself. You can certainly strive for being liked, but you should remain authentic to who you really are.
So, does it matter if one partner is more likable than the other?
Tony had the following to say on the topic:
Jill agrees that it doesn’t matter who is more likable. In fact, she urged listeners to move forward instead of trying to get people to like them.
She has more tips:
Is your partner more likable than you? Do you care? Have you ever tried any of these tips? Leave your answers in the comments section.
Jill Cox-Cordova and her husband Anthony Cordova show how those with significant others can disagree often, but still maintain a healthy and happy relationship.Â
Jill is the most charming and friendly person out there. It’s a gift. She lights up a room and everyone likes her. Denis can be the most delightful person in a room, but his Gemini dual nature can turn him into a real troublemaker. Having said that, often in a new situation I tend to be more upfront with my views—of course it’s usually politics—while Denis is more concerned about being pleasant and possibly making new friends (at least until they rub him the wrong way). We have actually had to change dinner tables on cruise ships because of my forthright nature (Sagittarius, right?) I have to say that generally people like Denis better and are more impressed with him. (That and his sense of humor are why I married him.) He has a ready smile and is just better at it, maybe like Jill.
However, Tony, we do all right.
Awww, thanks Mary, Jill says. Tony says that you and he do much better than all right. Lol! We like and love both of you.