Can you believe Tony told Jill to “listen to the man”? Check out their discussion.
In this week’s episode, Jill and Tony talked about their quest to do something different this year, whether in relationships or other aspects of their life.
We did it! We did a year’s worth of podcasts. Thank you for listening.
The start of a new year often brings reflections about the past and goals for the future. In this week’s episode, we discussed setting goals for relationships.
Tony told listeners–once again–to run if they see something early on in their relationship that rubs them the wrong way.
Meanwhile, Jill said that if you’re looking to start a new relationship in 2020, leave your house. Your mate is out there somewhere.
For those who are already in a relationship, she urged you to look for ways to grow together.
Both Jill and Tony have more advice:
What relationship goals do you have for 2020? Leave your responses in the comments section.
Also, we still want you to submit topics for us to discuss. You can do so by either sending us an audio file or by simply putting it in the comments section.
Thanks again for your support.
Happy holidays, Everyone…or at least, we hope it is happy for you. Holidays can be tricky if you’re in a relationship.
In this week’s episode, we offer lots of advice on how to navigate it with peace and joy.
Jill told listeners to not only show kindness toward others, but also love yourself. Don’t forget you.
Tony suggested showing kindness to total strangers as well. You never know what people are going through, especially at this time of year.
We have more advice:
How do you get through the holidays? Leave your responses in the comments section.
Don’t forget to also leave your ideas for topics for us to discuss either in the comments section or as an audio file. We look forward to hearing from you.
In this week’s episode, Jill and Tony said that they are both perfectionists, but their conclusion about whether they are high maintenance relates to others’ perception of them.
Jill advised listeners to just be whoever and whatever they are because they are not going to change others’ perception of them.
Meanwhile, Tony advised listeners that if they find others call them high maintenance or any other label with a negative connotation, they should find out why. Perhaps their perception comes out of not knowing the person at all.
Jill and Tony have other tips:
How have you been labeled? Did the labels fit? If not, what did you do about it? Leave your answers in the comments section.
Also, leave an audio or written topic for us to discuss in our “I’m Trying to Help You” segment.
In this week’s episode, Tony and Jill discussed whether you should avoid debates or full-blown arguments on your partner’s birthday, or any other special occasions.
Tony told listeners that if their partner feels compelled to be nicer to them on a birthday or holiday, then they should consider how their partner treats them overall.
Meanwhile, Jill advised listeners to accept that their partner may not be thankful for the extra nice treatment.
Both Jill and Tony have advice:
What do you do for your partner on birthdays and other special occasions? Leave your responses in the comments section.
Also tell us–preferably with an audio file–what relationship topic you’d like for us to offer input or advice on to help you or someone you know.
In this week’s episode, Jill and Tony discussed whether people have more than one soulmate in a lifetime. The definition of soulmate can vary, they said, but they believe you can have more than one.
Tony told listeners to avoid forcing someone to be their soulmate.
Meanwhile, Jill told listeners to assess how much they are connected to another person to determine whether they are a soulmate.
Both agree on the following advice:
How many soulmates do you think people get in a lifetime? Leave your answers in the comments section.
Also, please let us know what relationship-related question you’d like us to answer. We prefer audio files, no more than 90 seconds please, but we’ll accept written questions as well.
In this week’s episode, Jill and Tony discussed whether forgiving and truly forgetting is achievable.
Tony encouraged listeners to forgive and forget, but he also said that there are some situations that you should remember, so that you don’t get burned the next time.
Meanwhile, Jill told listeners who don’t have a good memory to work on improving it because it will help with future relationships.
They both have the following advice for all listeners:
Have you ever been able to forgive and forget? If so, how did you do it? Leave your answers in the comments section.
Also, leave a question that you’d like to see us address. We prefer that you send us an audio file, limited to 90 seconds, of your asking the question, but we will also accept written questions. We will select ones to share with our entire audience starting in Season 2, which begins in January 2020.
In this week’s episode, Jill and Tony discussed the pros and cons of dating someone who was just a friend first.
Tony told listeners to take their time to figure out who your love interest truly is. Figure out what or if they are hiding anything.
Meanwhile Jill encouraged listeners to be honest with themselves and their friends. If you find yourself falling for your friend, let them know.
They both have more advice:
Have you ever dated someone who was just a friend? Did it work out for you? Leave your answers in the comments section. Don’t forget to subscribe, so that you don’t miss any episodes.
In this week’s episode, Tony was offended by Jill saying that she has trained him to change a few of his habits. He agreed, however, that partners can teach each other. In short, training and teaching were interchangeable for Jill, but not for Tony.
He told listeners that if you are in a relationship with someone who says you have been trained by them, respond to them in a calm manner that the word “trained” is incorrect.
Meanwhile, Jill encouraged listeners to help each other grow. If you use certain words that offend your partner, use other words.
Together, they have more advice:
What do you think about conditioning your partner to change behaviors that suit you better? Leave your answers in the comments section. Let us know what topics you’d like to hear us tackle.