In this week’s episode, Jill and Tony compromised on Tony’s idea to spend time in the country for an entire month.
Tony suggested that you keep an open mind if you have a partner who encourages you to try new things. You may even enjoy yourself.
He also has other advice:
Avoid getting stuck in a rut doing the same things. Try to do something you didn’t think you would like.
Embrace finding the many ways to add joy to your life.
Understand that your partner may be able to see what will make you happy before you do.
During the episode, Jill suggested that you try things at least once, but with the understanding that it’s okay if you don’t enjoy it enough to ever do it again.
She has other tips:
Stay true to who you are. Your trying something your partner likes doesn’t mean you have to stop doing what you enjoy.
Retain your identity. Sometimes it’s easy to get lost in your identity as a couple. Remember that you are individuals, too.
Don’t be afraid to compromise. When done right, both partners win.
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In this week’s episode, Jill and Tony agreed that in order to grow, we all must do things outside of our comfort zones.
Jill has additional advice:
If you find yourself reluctant to try new things, truly weigh the pros against the cons.
Try at least one new thing a month.
If you’re in a relationship, chances are that you have separate interests. If you try something your partner enjoys, it can open up many possibilities for you and increase the bond the two of you have.
Tony has some suggestions, too.
It’s a great idea to take risks while in a relationship, especially if you take risks together.
There are all types of risk, of course. Take ones that move you out of your comfort zone.
Some risks can be dangerous, like skydiving, or scrubber driving, or maybe riding a motorcycle at 130 mph. Those may make you feel alive. Whatever risks you decide to take, try to do it with your partner before the end of the year.
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In this week’s episode, Jill said to avoid dwelling on labels or titles that others give you.
Instead, she suggests doing the following:
Understand that you will encounter people who will call you something besides your name. Determine why they did it. Chances are they are just joking. If they aren’t, tell them how you feel.
Realize that some people just want to give you nicknames. Feel free to return the favor.
Know who you are, so that you can tell and show others when you need to do so.
In this week’s episode, Tony told listeners to not tell their partner if they were called a name that would make the other one seem demanding or bossy.
He has other tips, too:
Titles can mean a lot to some people while in a relationship, so if someone gives you a nickname that makes them and you smile, accept it. It’s all in fun.
Be able to laugh at yourself and to laugh with others about yourself. Try not to take everything so seriously.
Life is too special and short to worry about little things. Try loving one another.
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In this episode, there was no real debate. Instead, we discussed what we needed and wanted in a partner when we met. We also offered advice for you because you know, that’s what we do.
Tony told listeners to not rush into a relationship.
He also has the following suggestions:
Make sure that you are happy with yourself first. Another person will never be able to keep you happy, unless you are already happy.
Take your time. Make sure that you have many things in common, and that you have a physical and love attraction for each other. The right person for you should also be your best friend.
Be yourself. If you can’t be your true self around the person that you think is the right person you, this is a clear sign that you’re not with the right person. They are not your soul mate.
Jill also told listeners to not change who they are to attract someone.
She also has other tips:
Be honest with yourself about the things you can tolerate for the rest of your life.
Do not make everything a deal breaker.
Recognize that no one, including you, is perfect.
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In this week’s podcast, Tony and Jill agreed that you should be able to have a relationship with a person who is of the sex that you’re attracted to. Of course, sometimes issues arise if someone feels that their relationship is threatened.
Jill advised listeners to communicate with each other if one felt uncomfortable with a friendship the other one has.
She has other tips:
Be aware of who your friends really are.
Listen to and respect your partner’s concern if he or she has a problem with your friend. You may be too close to the situation to truly see what is happening.
Don’t be afraid to drop a friend if you find that he or she is toxic to you or your relationship.
Tony advised people to stay aware of people who may have ulterior motives.
He has more thoughts on the topic:
It can be easier to have this kind of friendship if you grew up with the person in question, and you never developed any romantic feelings for each other.
If you develop a friendship with a person that you met at your job, be honest with your partner about it. Otherwise, this scenario often ends badly for both people.
Be honest with your partner and your friend from the start.
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